Argumentative Text - HAVING BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND HELPS THE STUDENT LEARNING

In this world, Allah has said that human live in pairs. There are man and woman. So, it is very natural when they are falling in love. But, how about having a boyfriend or girlfriend in the school time? It helps your study or disturbs you? Everybody has different opinion about it. Some people may think negatively, but let’s see the positive side that have boyfriend or girlfriend helps your learning.

First, boyfriend or girlfriend can be the motivator. Motivation is the reason why somebody does something or behaves in a particular way. It is very important; everybody needs motivation to do something excitedly. School time is the best time for children to get motivation continuously, so they have desire to study hard and develop themselves well and their pair is the best motivator.

Second, having boyfriend or girlfriend lost the inferior feeling. Having boyfriend or girlfriend is very common today. Sometimes people who don’t have pair feel very shame, they may think they are ugly, stupid, or other bad think and they will feel inferior.  Inferior is bad, especially for student. It can obstruct students to develop their ability maximally, because they feel different. It means that having boyfriend or girlfriend make somebody to be more confidence.

Third, in this globalization era, everything is to be more complicated. Indonesian’s religion, culture, economy and so on is influenced by the western and Indonesian’s young life style is no exception. So, it is very difficult to find someone who good inside without we do approaches. These approaches that we know it as having an affair are the way to teach the young to be mature because of the problems on their relation with their boyfriend or girlfriend.

We can’t deny that some people think having boyfriend or girlfriend is not suitable with our culture. We are the eastern. We are affable, polite, respect, and so on. The wrong thing of having boy friend or girl friend is sometime the young ignore the tradition which their parents very respect it. For the example, the hundred cases of the pregnancy before married, abortion, narcotic, etc. So, it makes the parents worry about their children. In the other hand, the young can’t avoid the globalization effects. The right thing in this case is the parent should give a good guide for their children to minimize the bad effect of globalization.

All of thing depend on us, it means good or bad is our choice. The bad assumption of having boy friend or girl friend comes from the bad cases that happened because of it. But, don’t forget to see the good side of having an affair. We live in this world need one another and we can’t perfect without our pair.